How to Explain Representation to Young Children
Representation is a vital concept that helps children understand diversity, inclusivity, and empathy. It’s about ensuring that everyone sees themselves reflected positively in the stories, media, and experiences around them. Here’s how to explain representation to young children in a way that resonates with them.
1. Start with the Basics
Begin by explaining that representation means seeing people who maybe don’t look like us or do look like us in stories, media, and everyday life. You can say something like, “Representation is about making sure everyone can see themselves in the stories we read and the shows we watch.” This sets a solid foundation for understanding.
2. Use Examples
Point out diverse characters in books, TV shows, or movies. For instance, if you’re watching a show, ask questions like, “Do you see someone who looks like you?” or “How does this character’s story relate to ours?” This encourages children to think critically about the media they consume and recognize the importance of representation.
3. Talk About Differences
Discuss the beauty of differences—different cultures, backgrounds, and abilities. Explain that everyone has unique stories and experiences that deserve to be shared. You might say, “Isn’t it wonderful that we all have our own stories? It makes the world more interesting!” Encourage your child to celebrate these differences and appreciate what makes each person special.
4. Promote Empathy
Encourage your child to imagine how it feels to be in someone else’s shoes. Ask questions like, “How do you think they felt in that situation?” This promotes empathy and helps children understand that everyone has their own story. You could share a story from your own life where you felt different and how that experience shaped you.
5. Celebrate Diversity
Share stories and experiences from various cultures. Explore different traditions, holidays, and foods to broaden their understanding. You might plan activities like cooking a dish from another culture or attending community events that celebrate diversity. This hands-on approach allows children to engage with and appreciate different cultures firsthand.
By teaching representation, we help children appreciate diversity and foster a sense of belonging for everyone. Let’s raise compassionate, inclusive kids who understand the importance of seeing and valuing every person’s unique story!
About Esther, The Author
I knew I wanted him to grow up understanding that both girls and boys could achieve anything that they set their minds to, but I couldn’t find any books that featured a female lead character (a human one, not an animal one!) that really represented the message I wanted to teach him. So I thought, if I can’t find the story I want to tell, I’d better write it myself.